What I Believe About Marriage

What I believe about marriage is based on my belief that the Bible is the Word of God, that it is true, and that it is the primary way God reveals His truths to us. I’m not a theologian, but what I write here is primarily a result of my lengthy and ongoing pursuit of what God’s Word has to say about marriage.

Marriage beliefs are not a salvation issue. Jesus is the only salvation issue, and there is no compromise on that. However, I don’t condemn or judge others who see marriage differently than I do. In fact I welcome respectful dialogue and the open exchange of ideas.

You’ll find some summary level information on my marriage beliefs in the pages in the About menu.

For a more thorough exploration of my marriage beliefs, below are links to an in-depth 7-part series “What I Believe About Marriage.”

  1. Marriage Belongs to God
  2. What to Do With the Gap
  3. The Bridal Paradigm
  4. An Ordered Partnership
  5. For Husbands Only: Lead with Love
  6. For Wives Only: Love, Respect and Submission
  7. What is a Surrendered Marriage?

I suggest these two posts as essential reading for Husbands (coming soon):

  1. Husbands: Strong and Good
  2. That’s Not Headship

I suggest these two posts as essential reading for Wives (coming soon):

  1. Wives: Strong and Submissive
  2. That’s Not Submission




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