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Your Needs Aren’t Being Met. Now What?


Withholding is a natural reaction when you feel your needs aren’t being met. But it’s a bad strategy. Looking for a video version of today’s post? Check out our new YouTube channel, and be sure to subscribe while you’re there! Many couples face the issue of unmet needs at some point in their marriage. When …

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Run Your Race with Passion, Determination, and Joy

There is no finish line in the marathon of marriage. Here are some tips to help you run well so you can endure for the long haul and enjoy the race along the way. This June, Jenni and I will celebrate 39 years of marriage, which means next year it will be the big 4 …

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There Is Always More

It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been married; there is always more for you to discover in the future. Even after 38 years of marriage, Jenni and I believe that there is still much more for us to discover and enjoy in our marriage in the months and years ahead. And we are determined to …

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When Disconnection Creeps In


When you find your level of connection lacking, it’s time to take intentional action. It’s an amazing mystery, literally a mega-mystery, but the Bible declares that Jenni and I are one, just as I am one with Christ (Eph 5:31-32). What an awesome privilege to be joined together in perfect oneness. Intimacy Isn’t Automatic We …

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Husbands: Love, Lead, and Serve

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The clear scriptural mandate for all husbands is to love, lead, and serve their wives, as Christ does the church. A Men Only Monday Post God designed marriage to be a mysterious partnership, based on Paul’s description of the one-flesh marriage framework described in Ephesians 5: “For this reason a man will leave his father …

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