What would your marriage be like if both of you threw out the scorecards? What if you were both one hundred percent in, putting everything you have and everything you are into your marriage? The 50/50 marriage paradigm, held up by many as the “ideal” marriage, says that everything should be divided right down the middle. A husband and wife …
A Men Only Monday Post Welcome to another Men Only Monday. Listen up, guys! Today I’m challenging you to do a bit of serious self- reflection about your level of engagement in your marriage. Ladies, you can stop back by on Wednesday for your part of the “leaning” equation. Are You Leaning Forward or Leaning …
I’ve been writing on marriage for almost three years now. Yet just this past week I had a huge “aha” discovery regarding the word surrender. I have no idea how it took me so long to see this. When you hear the word “surrender,” what do you think of? Defeat? Loss? Giving up? Being taken …
Frequently going above and beyond the bare minimum will shift the atmosphere in your marriage. Please excuse my sparse posting of late. A week in Italy (yeah, I know, rough life), a holiday weekend and a mad crazy week preparing to go on two-and-a-half week vacation (really rough life!) had combined to dramatically limit my …
