Recommended Blogs

I read a ton of great marriage blogs. It’s hard for me to keep up with them all – there is so much good stuff!

I’ve curated a list of my favorites and listed them on this page, grouped into a few categories, with links to the three most recent posts from each included. I count many of the bloggers represented here as friends, and they all have a proven track record of providing solid, helpful, and biblical insights.

General Christian Marriage Blogs

Paul Byerly (Pictured with his wife, Lori) has two daily blogs. One for husbands and one for wives.

The Generous Husband

Daily rants on being a better husband (for husbands)

– September 21, 2023Avoid Judging Your Wife’s Heart and Mind
– September 19, 2023Do Your Part Even When She’s Missing It
– September 18, 2023Give Your Wife a Massage for No Reason

The XY Code
Decoding the male mind (for wives).

– September 20, 2023WBW: Science Continues to Show Gender Differences are Real
– September 18, 2023Help Your Husband Enjoy Life Fully
– September 15, 2023Sex Should Be Great for Wives Too

The Generous Wife

Lori Byerly

May I encourage y’all to consider generosity as a way of life? Aside from the good you can do, the return benefits are great. God will bless you in surprising ways and you’ll be swamped with the backwash of generosity and kindness that comes with that kind of lifestyle. Pray and practice. The more you do it, the better you get at it.

– December 11, 2022Bless Y’all
– December 10, 2022Kindness Conclusions (7 of 7)
– December 9, 2022Kindness Resources (6 of 7)

One Flesh Marriage

Brad and Kate Aldrich

Our goal is to help Christian couples realize the possibility of living in One Flesh with their spouse as described in Ephesians 5.

– August 14, 2023We Are Still Becoming One!
– April 19, 2018Choosing Marriage
– April 8, 2018My Husband is Like Having Another Kid!

The Romantic Vineyard

Tom and Debi Walter

Face it, marriage is hard work. But when cultivated daily the fruit produced will satisfy for a lifetime. We’re here to help with ideas and encouragement along the way. Having been married 36 years and counting, we share what we’ve learned with practical tips, Biblical Truths, Date night ideas to help you plow your own vineyard for God’s glory.

– September 15, 2023Foodie Fridays – Craving Fall
– September 9, 2023Foodie Friday – Pizza, Please
– September 1, 2023Foodie Fridays – Tuscan Shrimp

Love Hope Adventure

Keelie Reason (pictured with husband Austin)

Like-minded couples discussing marriage communication and intimacy. Austin and I are children of God and we are committed to sharing marriage advice through a Biblical lens. We hope that as you begin to understand what the scriptures have to say about sex and marriage, your relationship will become stronger.

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Sexual Intimacy Blogs for Wives

The Forgiven Wife

Chris Taylor

The mission of The Forgiven Wife is to encourage Christian wives as they work to grow in their approach to sexual intimacy in their marriages. After 20 years of restricting the sex life in my marriage, I have learned to dance with desire and enjoy the full intimacy that comes with passionate and joyful sex with my husband.

– June 10, 2022Thüringen Erfahren All-Road in 2022
– July 12, 2020Thüringen Erfahren in 2020
– April 29, 2020Transcimbrica

Hot, Holy & Humorous

J. Parker

My mission is to reclaim sexuality for our marriages as God intended. Thus, my tag line: Sex & Marriage by God’s Design. I wholeheartedly believe that sex is a significant part, and perk, of a godly marriage. I want to help others experience the best sexual intimacy in their marriage they can have, and that comes through believing, pursuing, and experiencing sex as God created it to be.

– September 18, 202310 Things She Can Do to Help Sex Go Well
– July 3, 2023Are Masculine Men a Problem for Women?
– June 15, 2023Keep the Spark Alive: Schedule Sex

Intimacy in Marriage

Julie Sibert

Encouraging Christian women toward healthy sexual intimacy. I am simply a Christian wife with a heart to offer hope, encouragement, and resources on this sensitive topic.

– April 16, 2023Are You a Higher Drive Wife?
– January 3, 2023What are Your Biggest Sexual Roadblocks?
– January 2, 20232023 and Your Intimacy: What’s Up Ahead?

Awaken Love

Ruth Buezis

The mission of the Awaken-Love ministry is to encourage men and women to claim God’s design for intimacy and equip them to share that truth with others.

– September 20, 2023Awaken Love Classes for Wives starting soon!
– January 31, 2023Awaken Love Podcast and Other Exciting News
– September 21, 2022Quarterly Gathering

Bonny’s Oysterbed

Bonny Burns (pictured with husband Dave)

The mission of OysterBed7 is to give hope to the wife who finds sexual intimacy hard, experiencing low sexual desire compared to her higher drive husband. I want to help her understand more about herself while thinking noble/beautiful/true thoughts in regards to God’s design of sexual intimacy.

– March 22, 2020Help Carry Each Other’s Burdens To Improve Sexual Interest
– March 8, 202025 Ways to Serve Your Spouse and Grow Sexual Interest
– February 23, 20204 Ways to Build Acceptance and Sexual Interest

Calm, Healthy, Sexy

Gaye Christmus

Our goal is to share simple, practical tips you can use to manage your time, take care of your health, and enjoy your marriage so that you can create your best life as a woman, wife and mom. We help you start with the life you have, then make small changes to create the life you want.

– July 8, 2022The 3 x 3 + 1 Rule – The Incredibly Simple Way to Improve Your Diet
– July 6, 2022How to Lose 15 Pounds (or 10 or 20)
– May 30, 20226 Simple Ways to Slow Down this Summer

Sex Chat for Christian Wives – Podcast

Chris Taylor, J. Parker, Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus

Welcome to a podcast for your marriage bed! Have a question about God’s design for marriage and sexual intimacy? Ask us! Check back to see if we’ve answered your question on one of our shows.

– September 14, 2023Episode 162: Listener Questions – Depriving, the Mess, and When It Can’t Happen
– August 30, 2023Episode 161: Fact or Fiction, Sex Edition
– August 16, 2023Episode 160: Things Not to Do During Sex

Sexual Intimacy – For All

Be Fully Well

Dr. Jessica McCleese

I love to help couples find joy in their marriage. I fully believe that couples are happier when they’re working on themselves as individuals and also working on their relationship as a couple. Thankfully, even when there is individual work needed, couples can help one another in this process. I hope you’ll allow me to journey with you as you learn how to love your spouse well!

The Marriage Bed

Paul and Lori Byerly

Sex and intimacy for married Christians. Offering scripturally based, scientifically accurate information on sexuality since 1997! We pray this site help you find the depth of intimacy God intended through the gift of sex.

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Recovery From Adultery and Sexual Brokenness

My Beloved is Mine

Jason and Tiffani Graves

A couple who have been through the fires of hell in our marriage journey, and finally learned that submitting ourselves to God’s plan was the key to an awesome marriage. In addition to many other marital trials, we are also adultery survivors. Yes, we bear witness to the fact that a marriage CAN survive – and even be far better than it ever was before. (Jason is most active Twitter these days)

Hope for Spouses

Kim Pullen

Hope and healing for spouses in the wake of adultery and sexual addiction.

– September 6, 2023Review: “Counterfeit Gods”
– May 8, 2023The Tension Between: A Prayer
– August 27, 2021The Most Difficult Challenge in Healing from Sexual Betrayal

Find more great Christian Marriage blogs at the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association (CMBA) website.