Recommended Blogs

I read a ton of great marriage blogs. It’s hard for me to keep up with them all – there is so much good stuff!

I’ve curated a list of my favorites and listed them on this page, grouped into a few categories, with links to the three most recent posts from each included.  I count many of the bloggers represented here as friends, and they all have a proven track record of providing solid, helpful, and biblical insights.

Paul Byerly (Pictured with his wife, Lori) has two daily blogs. One for husbands and one for wives.

The Generous Husband

Daily rants on being a better husband (for husbands)

• – September 18, 2021Of Sex And Relationship
• – September 17, 2021Friday Flashback: Control and Safety
• – September 16, 2021WINTER IS COMING!!

The XY Code
Decoding the male mind (for wives).

• – September 17, 2021Feeling Horny Is A Good Thing
• – September 15, 2021Preventive Care Saves Lives
• – September 14, 2021Reality: Even When You Don’t Like It

The Generous Wife

Lori Byerly

May I encourage y’all to consider generosity as a way of life? Aside from the good you can do, the return benefits are great. God will bless you in surprising ways and you’ll be swamped with the backwash of generosity and kindness that comes with that kind of lifestyle. Pray and practice. The more you do it, the better you get at it.

• – September 17, 2021Craft Project
• – September 16, 2021Grace for the Journey
• – September 15, 2021Way Back Wednesday – Faithful in the Mundane

One Flesh Marriage

Brad and Kate Aldrich

Our goal is to help Christian couples realize the possibility of living in One Flesh with their spouse as described in Ephesians 5.

• – April 19, 2018Choosing Marriage
• – April 8, 2018My Husband is Like Having Another Kid!
• – November 27, 2017Giving in to Stress

The Romantic Vineyard

Tom and Debi Walter

Face it, marriage is hard work. But when cultivated daily the fruit produced will satisfy for a lifetime. We’re here to help with ideas and encouragement along the way. Having been married 36 years and counting, we share what we’ve learned with practical tips, Biblical Truths, Date night ideas to help you plow your own vineyard for God’s glory.

• – September 14, 2021Being Honest
• – September 4, 2021It’s Not too Late…
• – August 30, 2021Drifting or Sailing?

To Love Honor and Vacuum

Sheila Gregoire

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature “Girl Talk” about sex and marriage. And she’s written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.

• – September 17, 2021Does it Matter Who is the Primary Breadwinner?
• – September 16, 2021PODCAST: Are You Doing Sex on HARD MODE?
• – September 15, 2021How Do You Feel about Giving “Sexual Favors” While Postpartum/on Your Period?

Love Hope Adventure

Keelie Reason (pictured with husband Austin)

Like-minded couples discussing marriage communication and intimacy. Austin and I are children of God and we are committed to sharing marriage advice through a Biblical lens. We hope that as you begin to understand what the scriptures have to say about sex and marriage, your relationship will become stronger.

• – September 17, 2021What Every Healthy Marriage Possesses
• – September 15, 2021How to Give an Amazing Blow Job
• – September 13, 2021Should a Woman Get Her Tubes Tied or The Man Get a Vasectomy?

The Forgiven Wife

Chris Taylor

The mission of The Forgiven Wife is to encourage Christian wives as they work to grow in their approach to sexual intimacy in their marriages. After 20 years of restricting the sex life in my marriage, I have learned to dance with desire and enjoy the full intimacy that comes with passionate and joyful sex with my husband.

• – December 31, 2020Change of Address
• – December 15, 2020When Was the Last Time You Had “Extra” Sex?!
• – December 4, 2020A Loveliness of Links ~ November 2020

Hot, Holy & Humorous

J. Parker

My mission is to reclaim sexuality for our marriages as God intended. Thus, my tag line: Sex & Marriage by God’s Design. I wholeheartedly believe that sex is a significant part, and perk, of a godly marriage. I want to help others experience the best sexual intimacy in their marriage they can have, and that comes through believing, pursuing, and experiencing sex as God created it to be.

• – September 16, 2021What If Your Husband Is a Bedroom Bully?
• – September 13, 2021You Are Not Your Husband’s Sex Toy
• – September 9, 2021Honest Answers to Questions About Sex

Intimacy in Marriage

Julie Sibert

Encouraging Christian women toward healthy sexual intimacy. I am simply a Christian wife with a heart to offer hope, encouragement, and resources on this sensitive topic.

• – September 2, 2021Ready for Better Sex in Your Christian Marriage?
• – June 29, 2021If You Get My Blog Posts Via Email…
• – June 20, 2021Wives, Don’t Miss This Free Online Summit on Intimacy

Awaken Love

Ruth Buezis

The mission of the Awaken-Love ministry is to encourage men and women to claim God’s design for intimacy and equip them to share that truth with others.

• – September 8, 2021Equipping Pastors to Talk About SEX
• – September 2, 2021Here I Am Again
• – December 7, 2020Zoom Awaken Love Classes Offered Soon!

Bonny’s Oysterbed

Bonny Burns (pictured with husband Dave)

The mission of OysterBed7 is to give hope to the wife who finds sexual intimacy hard, experiencing low sexual desire compared to her higher drive husband. I want to help her understand more about herself while thinking noble/beautiful/true thoughts in regards to God’s design of sexual intimacy.

• – March 22, 2020Help Carry Each Other’s Burdens To Improve Sexual Interest
• – March 8, 202025 Ways to Serve Your Spouse and Grow Sexual Interest
• – February 23, 20204 Ways to Build Acceptance and Sexual Interest

Calm, Healthy, Sexy

Gaye Christmus

Our goal is to share simple, practical tips you can use to manage your time, take care of your health, and enjoy your marriage so that you can create your best life as a woman, wife and mom. We help you start with the life you have, then make small changes to create the life you want.

• – March 27, 2021Keep Going – Healthy Life Toolbox, Tool #12
• – March 10, 2021Decide What You Really Deserve – Healthy Life Toolbox, Tool #11
• – February 17, 2021Stop Messing Around – Healthy Life Toolbox, Tool #10

Sex Chat for Christian Wives – Podcast

Chris Taylor, J. Parker, Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus

Welcome to a podcast for your marriage bed! Have a question about God’s design for marriage and sexual intimacy? Ask us! Check back to see if we’ve answered your question on one of our shows.

• – September 14, 2021Episode 115: Sex When Life is Overwhelming
• – August 31, 2021Episode 114: Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy
• – August 17, 2021Episode 113: The Most Pleasurable Sex Positions

Be Fully Well

Dr. Jessica McCleese

I love to help couples find joy in their marriage. I fully believe that couples are happier when they’re working on themselves as individuals and also working on their relationship as a couple. Thankfully, even when there is individual work needed, couples can help one another in this process. I hope you’ll allow me to journey with you as you learn how to love your spouse well!

• – January 22, 202114 Conversation Starters to Get to Know Your Spouse Better
• – January 14, 202114 Things God Says About Husbands and Wives
• – January 6, 202114 Words of Encouragement For Your Spouse

The Marriage Bed

Paul and Lori Byerly

Sex and intimacy for married Christians. Offering scripturally based, scientifically accurate information on sexuality since 1997! We pray this site help you find the depth of intimacy God intended through the gift of sex.

• – June 28, 2018Orgasmic Experience Before and After Marriage
• – May 31, 2018How Bad Are Various Sexual Sins?
• – May 4, 2018Premarital Sexual Experience

My Beloved is Mine

Jason and Tiffani Graves

A couple who have been through the fires of hell in our marriage journey, and finally learned that submitting ourselves to God’s plan was the key to an awesome marriage. In addition to many other marital trials, we are also adultery survivors. Yes, we bear witness to the fact that a marriage CAN survive – and even be far better than it ever was before. (Jason is most active Twitter these days)

Hope for Spouses

Kim Pullen

Hope and healing for spouses in the wake of adultery and sexual addiction.

• – August 27, 2021The Most Difficult Challenge in Healing from Sexual Betrayal
• – October 29, 2020His Words Are All I Need
• – May 5, 2020Secrets of the Heart

Find more great Christian Marriage blogs at the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association (CMBA) website.